When Environmental Concerns Become Controlling: A Reddit User’s Story

A Reddit user shared how her once loving husband became obsessed with water conservation, causing strain in their 20-year marriage. Known for his conspiracy theories, he installed a new water filter and imposed a rule: showering only twice a week. This clashed with his wife’s daily routine, leading to conflict.

Things worsened when he started shutting off the hot water during her showers. Frustrated, she confronted him and even threatened to move out. While she still loves him, she can’t tolerate his controlling behavior.

Reddit users advised her to stand up for herself, suggesting marriage counseling and therapy for him, as his actions seemed unreasonable.