Daughter sparks debate after asking father to pay $200k for destination wedding

A dad recently vented on Reddit about the dilemma he faced when his daughter’s extravagant wedding dreams clashed with his practical instincts. He had promised to finance her wedding, a common parental gesture, but was shocked when she revealed her dream: a $200,000 destination wedding in New Zealand with up to 200 guests.

While his wife thought they should pay, he felt it was a waste of money that would alienate family members. His daughter, upset, stopped talking to him, leading him to question whether he should give in.

Redditors offered advice, with one suggesting he only contribute what he was comfortable with, leaving the rest to the couple. So far, the dad hasn’t updated the situation, but his daughter is calling him a jerk. This story highlights the challenges of balancing generosity with practicality as a parent.