My Ex-Husband’s New Girlfriend Went Too Far in Relationship With Our Daughter, and I Am Deeply Worried

Vanessa, 35, recently shared a concerning incident involving her young daughter and her ex-husband’s new girlfriend, Kylie.

Since her divorce a year ago, Vanessa had been comfortable with her daughter’s relationship with Kylie, even appreciating the positive influence. However, things changed when her daughter revealed that Kylie had bathed her multiple times without Vanessa’s knowledge. This revelation deeply unsettled Vanessa, as she felt it crossed a boundary.

While Vanessa is supportive of Kylie’s involvement in less intimate aspects of her daughter’s life, she believes bathing is a personal matter that should require her consent, especially since it’s become a routine. Unsure whether she’s overreacting, Vanessa seeks advice on whether she should address the issue directly with her ex-husband or Kylie or let it go.